Forget the selfie, You take the picture!
A couple of weekends ago, I took my boys to the Stone Arch Bridge in downtown Minneapolis to capture some pictures with fresh scenery.
As usual, we packed our bags, grabbed some snacks, buckled into the car, and headed off for another photo shoot with Dad.
I might add that they were more excited than usual about Dad taking more pictures of them because we were going to a “cool” bridge. They were so excited that they even picked out their own matching outfits!
Not only was the sunset beyond perfect, but the area was also filled with people walking their dogs, holding hands, admiring the architecture, and smiling. It was simply a positive atmosphere.
The best part, though, was when a couple approached and offered to take a picture of me with the boys.
At first, I graciously declined, but the woman insisted.
“I’m a photographer, and I know how seldom I get my picture taken.”
At that point, I couldn’t help but say yes. Looking back at this kind gesture, I’m extremely grateful that she offered. I couldn’t thank her enough.
It got me thinking: How often are you out and about when you see the typical scenario of a couple leaning back as far as they can to take a selfie together?
Or maybe you see a father taking a picture of his family, only to be left out himself.
Perhaps you’re walking through a park and see a single parent trying to take pictures of their little ones.
My challenge to you is to notice.
Notice the people around you. Notice your surroundings. Notice the scenery.
Like everyone else, I’m guilty of being glued to a piece of technology—whether it’s my cell phone, tablet, or camera. But as I get older, I’m beginning to appreciate the little things more and more: the small but meaningful moments and memories you’ll never notice until you look up.
So, the next time you’re out and about, look up. Look around. Notice the people and your surroundings—and offer to take that picture.
I know I will.
